When Baby Makes Four
PREPARING THE CAT FOR A NEW BABY
Today,
shelters are still visited by tearful mothers-to‑ be with cats in tow, who
arrive after well-meaning
relatives or old-school obstetricians have
convinced
them that keeping a cat risks the health and well-being of their unborn
child.
Don't succumb to
these old wives' tales. Knowing the facts
will help
provide
ways to safeguard both fetus and feline.
Before...
The parasitic infection toxoplasmosis is perhaps a
pregnant cat keeper's greatest fear,
it
can
result in
miscarriage,
stillbirth or such birth defects as blindness,
deafness, hydrocephalus or epilepsy. Since cats can become infected
with the
parasite by eating small
mammals or birds,
it
is best to keep your cat indoors.
Now is not a good time to befriend strays, as they may already be infected.
Toxoplasmosis cysts are shed in the feces of infected
animals. Since cats often use gardens as litter boxes,
wear gloves when gardening as well as when you are
washing raw vegetables and fruits, handling raw meat
or scrubbing food prep surfaces.
You
should also avoid rubbing your eyes until
your hands have been washed. And do not eat or feed your cat raw or under-cooked
meat. To prevent any cysts that is passed in the feces from becoming infectious, scoop fecal matter at least twice a
day. Better yet, use your 'delicate condition' to get your mate to handle
the dirt detail.
Some
cats resemble little old maids who cannot tolerate
change. These are the cats most likely to be affected
by a new baby, so use the entire pregnancy to slowly prepare them. Play
tapes of baby noises to acclimate your cat
to
the new sounds he's about to
hear, or rub baby lotion on your hands
before engaging In a pleasant
activity with him to create positive
associations with baby odors. Set
up nursery furniture
as soon as possible, and allow him s
venal weeks to investigate before you select surfaces to declare off
limits, such as the changing table and
crib, so that he can see there's
nothing scary here. However, don't
make
it
so comfortable
that he'll
want to nap on them. Then, at
least one month before the baby arrives, make the surfaces unwelcoming. Cut
sheets of card-board to the size
of the furniture surfaces and cover
one side with double-sided
adhesive/masking tape. Cats tend to avoid sticky surfaces, and by the end of
the month, he should steer dear of these sites.
If
the litter box has been kept in the soon-to-be nursery, several months
ahead of time move
it
a few inches a day to its new location.
If the transition is made too quickly, your cat may return to soil in his
old spot. Covering that area with
a solid object
like a diaper pail
or dresser may deter him.
Finally,
any cat care routines that will be shifted from new mother to mate after the
baby arrives should actually be switched one to two months before the birth.
These might include feedings, grooming, play sessions and sleep
partners/locations. If these were always shared activities, the change will
make little difference to the cat. If not, the cat will need time to adjust
to the style and skills of the new caregiver.
... And After Birth
When you first arrive home from the hospital, peace-fully greet your cat
without Interruption. Once you've had a few minutes to reconnect, let in
everyone else
mate, baby, grandparents, baby nurse and assorted
well-wishers. Unless your cat is extremely social, he will flee the hoopla
and go into hiding. Once things settle down, he will come tiptoeing back.
Place a used receiving blanket or piece of infant wear in a quiet area
where the cat can investigate it. When quietly nursing, allow the cat to
approach and check things out. If he follows you into the nursery at
nap-time, make sure he doesn't jump into the crib. While
there's certainly no truth to the myth that cats suck the
air out of babies' lungs, a newborn does not have the capacity to turn over
or even move her head at first. A heat-seeking cat who chooses to cuddle up
close to she baby's face could make it difficult for the child to breathe.
Close the door to the nursery when the baby is napping. If there is no door
to close, either install a temporary wean door or hang mosquito netting over
the crib to keep the cat out. These precautions also prevent the cat from
urinating in the crib, something he may try if extremely stressed.
With the baby safely at rest, now's the perfect time to grab a catnap with
your favorite feline.
Jacque Lynn Schultz, CPDT
ASPCA Companion Animal Programs Advisor |